![]() ![]() wrongly believed that she willingly joined in or “wanted” the abuse.Feelings of guilt and shame occur when the person: This can make them become isolated, feel depressed or harm themselves. Without support and understanding, women may continue to feel guilty and ashamed. Poverty often limits a woman’s life choices (e.g., the ability to pay for therapy), adding to the problems. For women of colour and lesbians, racism and homophobia add to the lack of safety. This causes stress, which is especially hard on a woman who is already traumatized. Discriminationįor many women, discrimination is an everyday experience. It also doesn’t allow the woman the safety she needs for healing. If a woman is in a relationship with someone who is emotionally, physically or sexually abusive, it worsens the effects of the original trauma. If a woman is told to “just forget it and get on with your life,” she can feel isolated and silenced. Some women may try to talk to friends or family members about the abuse. There are many situations that can make a woman’s trauma worse. Often, the care provider sees the trauma effects (e.g., substance use, depression) as the problem, rather than as a result of trauma. Women can be wrongly diagnosed and given unhelpful treatments, including some types of medicines. Sometimes when a woman seeks help, the care provider may not link her reactions with abuse-related trauma. feelings of self-hate and low self-esteem.repeated experiences of sexual or physical violence. ![]() feeling like you don’t want to live or you can’t go on with your life.binge-eating, purging (throwing up) food or starving.The signs described on the front of this brochure can be effects of trauma caused by abuse. Many people don’t know that abuse can affect their lives many years later, and do not connect the common effects of trauma to experiences of childhood abuse. The woman may not realize that she is reacting to things that remind her of the abuse. Trauma effects can make a woman feel out of control, or that she is “going crazy.” She may feel either emotionally numb or suddenly alert and panicky. But they often make women feel more isolated and depressed, and can increase anxiety and sleeping problems. These behaviours may help women cope for a while. For example, they may develop an eating disorder, misuse alcohol or other drugs, or harm themselves. Women cope with painful feelings in different ways. Their bodies may feel as if they are reliving the trauma, and they may have flashbacks (sudden, vivid and unpleasant memories of the event). Yet their bodies may register the danger and as adults their bodies still hold the memories of abuse.Īs a result, many women who have been abused are easily triggered by things that remind them of the abuse. Many children survive abuse by developing ways of coping that last into adulthood.Ĭhildren who are abused may not be able to understand that what is happening to them is wrong. Trauma is a normal response to being abused. Sexual abuse affects women from all backgrounds. One in two has been sexually assaulted or has experienced attempted sexual assault as an adult. One in five women has been sexually abused in childhood. Often the abuser was a family member or family friend. Women most often develop the effects of trauma if, as children, they felt helpless and trapped by abuse. Trauma can affect the person’s emotions, memory, thinking and sense of self. Traumatic childhood events can change the way a person’s brain and body work. A woman may have been:Īs a result, the woman may have overwhelming feelings of distress, fear and helplessness. Adapted from Women: What do these signs have in common?Ībuse-related trauma can develop after a person has been hurt and/or neglected, usually in childhood. ![]()
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